Does Chastity Make Men More Submissive?

Does chastity make men more submissive? You bet it does… but how? It’s quite simple, really. Let’s face it- men are controlled by their cocks. Most men don’t realize it on a conscious level, but nearly every decision a man makes is influenced in some way by his cock. Of course, we women realize that. That’s why we invented cock control.

Control the Cock; Control the Man

As we’ve already established, to control the cock is to control the man. Some men realize they need cock control and come to us seeking a Mistress who can control their cock; others don’t realize they need it yet. That certainly doesn’t mean they can’t be controlled, though.

There are many methods of cock control but chastity is my ultimate favorite. It is amazing to see the changes a man experiences throughout the various stages of orgasm control, chastity, and long-term denial An experienced Mistress recognizes the signs of each of these phases and knows just the right cock control method to use for each. She also knows that ultimately, locking that cock in chastity is the best way to make men more attentive to her needs. Without that cock getting hard every time the wind blows, it’s much easier to concentrate on what’s really important.

My Pleasure is your Pleasure

What is important is keeping Mistress happy. Since a chaste male cannot experience erection, he learns to find his own pleasure in bringing pleasure to his Mistress. He becomes much more attentive to her needs and starts looking for new ways to please her.

Eventually, the chaste submissive realizes that the more he pleases her, the more likely she may be to allow him time out of the cage for stroking, and maybe even an orgasm. Though the actual orgasm is unlikely, he begins thinking about how good it will feel to allow his cock to get hard again; to tease it, stroke it, and when he is finally allowed to cum, how intense the orgasm will be.

To add to his excitement, Mistress will tease him and hint around that she has a special surprise for him if he continues to be so good and obedient. He convinces himself that the special surprise is that he will be allowed to orgasm, so he works extra hard to please Mistress. At this point, he would do nearly anything for the chance to have that orgasm he’s craving so bad.

The Chaste Submissive is More Attentive and More Productive

Of course, Mistress knows that if she allows him to cum, the cycle will start all over. He’ll have a difficult time focusing and paying attention to her needs. He’ll have a difficult time getting anything done because all he can think about is how good that orgasm felt and how much he wants another one. No, the best way to keep a man more attentive and help him be more productive is to keep him locked up tight with no orgasm in sight.

The longer a man is kept in chastity the more docile he becomes. He goes from the phases of frustration and frenzy to the stage of acceptance. He begins to find the device comforting, as it reminds him of his Mistress and how devoted he is to her every time he stands up, sits down, or feels the tug of the cage. He begins to enjoy his new-found peace and no longer thinks only of the day he will be allowed to cum. Instead, he thinks of his Mistress and her needs and how he can take care of them for her.

Surprised that anyone could describe chastity as comforting? Most of those who now describe it that way were just as surprised to feel that way. Perhaps, submissive,  it’s time you give chastity a try and find out what you’re missing!

Give one of our Chastity Mistresses a call, today!