Chastity Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

Chastity does make the heart grow fonder. Ask my husband. I keep him in chastity more often than not because I travel a lot for my job and I have to know that he is being absolutely faithful to me.

I am not one of these bitchy women who whine to their man that “they’re afraid to leave him alone.” No, on the contrary, I am never afraid to leave him. He’s locked up tight and we both sleep better because of it.

In the Beginning

It all started when I got this great job that required me to travel to meet with managers in different departments. So it was San Francisco this week, London the following week, Tokyo soon after that. The money was fabulous, with room for advancement and success. I couldn’t pass it up because I was afraid that my husband couldn’t control his cock. See, I had reason to worry about leaving him alone with an unattended cock.

We had been going together since college. During our senior year, he fucked my roommate while I was at home on Christmas vacation. He told me about it tearfully when I got back. He said that it was just a one night stand and that it would never happen again. After much thought, I decided to forgive him (although I never forgot) and move on with our lives. I did kick my roommate to the curb, however. Someone had to pay for their little tryst!

So I forgave and nothing else happened. We got married and we had a great marriage. Then I got this job and all I could think of was that he had cheated on me during the only time I had ever left him alone. I realized that I would have to do something about this situation in order to be comfortable with it. Since taking him with me was out of the question because of his job, I knew that I would have go to some extreme measures to get piece of mind.

Chastity: Making the Decision

That’s when I stumbled upon the idea of male chastity. A friend mentioned in passing that she and her husband had some sex toys they played with from time to time. When she said that a chastity device was one of the toys they used, I thought she was joking. Didn’t chastity devices go out with the middle ages?

And weren’t they primarily used on women by paranoid husbands that were going to be fighting wars in faraway lands for years at a time? She laughed and assured me that there was such a thing as male chastity and gave me the web address for her favorite. Then she winked at me and said, “Just in case you and the hubby want to try something new.”

I did some of my own research and found that there was a thriving business for male chastity devices and knew I had my answer. I told my husband about my fears and the research I had done. He didn’t like the idea very much, but wanted to make me happy, so he hung his head and quietly agreed. He said that he knew he deserved it. I decided on the type of device and the type of lock.

I didn’t want it to hurt him, just remind him that he couldn’t go sharing his cock willy-nilly. It came with a nice carrying case and some numbered plastic locks. I kept those so we could use them on vacations if we decided to fly, but I bought a special metal padlock inscribed with “Because ILY” so that he would not be tempted to fly without me. He’s terrified of going through metal detectors and having to explain why his cock is in a cage to some strange security officer. It’s just an extra level of caution for me.

Locked Up with Love

I helped him put the device on the day I received it in the mail. It fit him nicely and it was reasonably comfortable for him. I carry the key, of course, and I’m the one to say when he gets to take it off. I let him out to fuck me every once in a while as well as times when I know I can keep a close eye on him.

Harsh? I don’t think so, since he has proven himself untrustworthy. Besides, I wouldn’t be able to do my job if I was constantly worried about what he and his cock were, or should I say who, doing while I was gone.

So I say that chastity makes the heart grow fonder because my husband is always happy to see me when I get home. He’s always attentive to my needs and listens to my problems and issues much better than he ever did before I locked his cock. I highly recommend it.