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So you think you can handle a cock lock? There are many different reasons men might crave the cradle of the cage: humiliation, submission, orgasm longevity, regimenting & training, anal orgasm cultivation, the need for letting go complete control etc. What brings you to the binds of the cage?

Physical vs. Mental Bonds

An actual chastity device is obviously very handy to prevent accidental nocturnal emissions and help the temptation of touching without permission but that's only the half of it. The mind's manipulation in the bonds bound by erotic entanglement and longing for your mistress is where all the real crux of chastity comes into play so much so that a device is almost secondary in nature.

Now if you and your mistress decide a cock lock is in fact the key to your submission then it's important to find the most befitting model but this doesn't mean you must have one in order to be chaste for a mistress. In fact, having that dick constantly rubbing and reminding you how much those aching erections seek the solace of release can be even an even greater delectation. You see, complete sensory deprivation can have the effect of making your libido go dormant during your duration which makes it way less fun to torment you in that case.

So determining if you require a device or not is the first step. In either case it's then a of matter of masturbation duration. Making you play but delay is necessary to keep that hunger sated but not let that need go abated.

-Are you open to anal orgasm experimentation? -How long can you endure? -Looking to break a personal best, want something long term or a short and sweet mini version?

Just be warned, if you say it's up to me I take that at face value and there is no telling what may happen.

What is Male Chastity Training?

by Ms. Cassandra of www.malechastityphonsex.com

Male chastity training is an erotic adventure into the world of dominance, submission, and Femdom. It is a sophisticated form of bondage and control of the male by a Mistress, Master, or a couple’s lifestyle agreement.

A male will request chastity training because of excessive masturbation addiction, curiousity, fetish interest, or the need for control of a dominant female. There are many reasons why a male needs and desires chastity training, these are but a few.

Chastity Training: Who Will Hold the Key?

For the sake of safety and sanity, keys to a chastity device are not exchanged. Plastic numbered locks are available and reliable through a kink store. Keyholding goes beyond sending keys through the mail, The Keyholder is your Mistress of choice, and she is the keystone to the success of the program.

With plastic key security, she can demand to view the securely locked chastity device through webcam or a daily picture. Plastic locks are reliable and tamper proof.

Remember, it’s all in the mindset. If a chastity slave is true to his submissive nature, he will be trusted to tend to his worn metal lock without incident.If the chastity slave has a real time Mistress, than she will hold the key on a chain around her neck as a proof of ownership.

Chastity Mindset and What to Expect

The mindset of a chastity slave is always submissive and in honor of Femdom. The locked penis is her penis. He understands and agrees that the schedule he is on is enforced by her, and is negotiated from the start.

Being submissive means he does not break any rules, he does not chastity cheat,and she is always in charge. A locked cock is taken out of the cage regularly to check for any abrasions. It is up to the Keyholder whether the cock is to be teased or not. She will decide if a prostate milking is in order.

Prostate milking is controversial whether it is needed or not. A male discharges fluids regularly. Prostate milking can be a humiliation experience, especially if other Mistresses are present, reminding him of his submission to his Keyholder. The locked penis is always the possession of Mistress. A Keyholder and slave will negotiate regular release. It can be days, weeks, months, or even years.

Male Chastity Training: Devices

Chastity devices vary from the Cb starter kits to the metal devices. Advanced devices may have a piercing option. With a piercing option, there is no chance for chastity cheating in theory.

There are also silicone options, perfect for gym visits. Since chastity training has gained in popularity, the selections are plentiful. Unfortunately, if a device does not fit, it is not returnable. Make sure to measure accurately before you purchase your device.

Chastity Contracts

A contract can be negotiated as a symbolic agreement.A chastity contract of course is not bound by law.The symbolism of a contract can be a good addition to a negotiated program, but a good chastity slave will not require one.

Things to Consider

Are you married or in a relationship? Will your partner want to participate? Do you travel frequently? How much time can you devote to your commitment. You may want to try a short program to begin with using a beginner’s device.

If you are seasoned, you may already have a cage and want to jump in immediately. The very most impostant thing is clear communication between your Keyholder and yourself.