Chastity from the Male Perspective

I am a chastity slave and want to talk about chastity from the male perspective. Chastity play is something I’ve been fantasizing about for many years. I remember reading an article in Variations magazine about a woman who locked up her lover while she was away on business trips. It started out as a way for her to trust him, but it quickly grew into a lifestyle and she was listing all the benefits that a chaste lover afforded her.

This was before the internet had entered into my life and it was the first time I ever really thought about being in chastity. I still remember the feeling of heaviness in my chest as I read the article and the intense feeling of arousal.

Trying out Chastity Devices

A few years later, I came across the CB2000 chastity device and I ordered one right away. I didn’t have a girlfriend or significant other at the time so I was my own keyholder. The excitement as I opened the package was amazing. When I held it in my hand, I was so impressed that someone had actually built a penis prison. I wore that device off and on for years. I continued to read about chastity and set my goal on purchasing a more secure metal device. I got a Prince Albert piercing in the summer of 2002 specifically for the purpose of being locked in chastity.

I moved on to the CB3000 when it came out and it was much more comfortable than the CB2000. I wore that device a lot, but again I was my own keyholder. I’ve since tried the Birdlocked, which is a great device but the material seems to absorb an odor, so it isn’t really practical for long term wear. I finally bought a Lori’s Tube metal chastity device which is locked on through my PA piercing.

This is the ultimate device in terms of high security. The only problem is that something in the metal caused me to get a wicked infection, I don’t know if I’m allergic to it or what, because the piercing had been healed for over 7 years when I got it. That device was my biggest disappointment in the chastity playground.

The Most Comfortable Chastity Device, Ever!

About a year ago, I got the CB6000S from stockroom.com. This device is at a steeper angle than the CB3000 making it even more comfortable. In fact, it’s so comfortable I forget I’m wearing it. The only problem is that there isn’t enough room for my piercing jewelry. Even though I would love to continue to wear my jewelry, it just doesn’t fit and causes all kinds of discomfort. I have now taken my jewelry out and allow my piercing to close up or do whatever it’s going to do. I am going to miss it, but it’s a small sacrifice to make in order to be locked up long term in chastity.

With that background, I can honestly say that I love chastity and I love being locked up, and as much fun as it is to be locked up for yourself, it’s a hundred times better to be locked up FOR someone. Every time I stand up, sit down, go to the bathroom, go to bed, get out of bed, take a shower, I am reminded that I am locked and of course, I think about my Empress. This puts her on my mind all the time. I am constantly aroused, and constantly thinking about her, thus I’m being programmed to associate arousal with my Empress. It’s total cock control and it’s absolutely delicious.

Programmed to Associate Arousal with My Empress

I had been with my Empress for about seven months and our relationship was great when we decided to give chastity a go and I immediately felt the difference. Suddenly I was locked for an indeterminate amount of time, and other the supervision and guidance of someone that I truly respect and want to please.

I found myself much more submissive, much more polite. As I witnessed this change in my own behavior, I saw a change in her behavior also. She had dealt with chastity slaves before and had found the experience a little unpleasant because they were whiney, needy and miserable. As I exhibited the opposite behavior, I could sense her embracing the chastity and even enjoying the total control over my cock that it gave to her.

Of course, in the beginning she was very attentive to my comfort level, and encouraging me to maintain a high level of hygiene. With my vast experience being locked and knowing the risks of being unhygienic such as rash and fungus, I am very careful and very clean, and I keep it very dry. Now that a few weeks have passed with no ill effects, she is in total control and loving it. In fact, she didn’t even let me out of the device the last time we talked, knowing that it would be another full week before I would have another chance to stretch it out and give it some air so to speak.

Chastity and Power Exchange

I love the whole power exchange. I have given over control of one of my most precious treasures and I am allowing her to determine its fate. I was already enamored with her before locking up, but even more so now. I must admit that when she said in a matter of fact way that I wouldn’t be getting out and doing any stroking for that week, my heart skipped a beat.

A part of me really wanted out to stroke and edge and then be denied and locked back up, but another part of me was thrilled that she exercised her control over me and made a decision and stuck with it. I think my level of respect and awe increased about tenfold from that one simple decision.

Am I more submissive locked in chastity? You better believe it. Am I more devoted to my keyholder and Empress? Yes indeed. I am now locked up tight, and I have never felt better. I love the feel of the cock cage as it encases my cock, refusing to allow it to get erect. My best guess is that the CB6000S only allows me to be about 25% erect, but that doesn’t remove one iota of desire.

Is chastity and long term denial for everyone? Certainly not, but for me and my Chastity Mistress, it has certainly been a most positive influence. And that, my friends, is a view of chastity from the male perspective!