Interview with a Chastity Mistress
Mistress Cassandra, also known as the Dicktator Chastity Mistress, began locking cocks in chastity about 4 years ago when she decided it was time to step things up a bit and venture into the area of extreme cock control. I recently had the opportunity to sit down with Ms. Cassandra and ask her a few questions about Chastity and what it’s like to be the Chastity Mistress. Read on to find out just what she had to say.
Q: What is the longest you’ve kept someone continuously in chastity?
A: Probably about a year, though that’s a bit more extreme than most.
Q: What is the “typical” length of time to keep someone locked in chastity?
A: Chastity is something that’s very individualized so nothing is typical. I have three basic chastity programs that are modified to fit each individuals needs. There is the “Ultra Lite” for those who are just beginning to show an interest in chastity, “Chastity Lite” for those who have completed the “Ultra Lite” or who have already had some experience with chastity, and “Chastity Extreme” for those who are into serious long-term chastity.
Q: Are there any health concerns about being in long-term chastity?
A: Proper cleaning is very important, as is regular prostate milking.
Q: How do you ensure your chastity boys are really doing what they should?
A: I do random checks to make sure they are following through, such as making them use plastic tamper-proof numbered locks and webcam verification. I can also tell by their attitude and actions whether or not they’ve been obedient. There are various phases of masturbation management and orgasm control and each has clear signs identifying its onset, many of which the male is not even aware of.
Q: I know you get lots of inquiries about chastity. Do most who inquire follow through with it?
A: I tell those who inquire to order the device and contact me once they’ve received it. I’d say a good portion of them at least try it, but only about 10% or so become serious chastity slaves.
Q: What is your favorite chastity device?
A: For those who are serious about long-term chastity and those in my extreme chastity program, I am fond of the Lori’s Tube, which requires a piercing to properly fit the device.
Q: You require your chastity boys to do more than just wear the cage, don’t you?
A: Of course! Chastity requires commitment and regular communication. In addition to regular cam calls and assignments, a chastity slave may be asked to start a blog about their chastity experience, to make a shrine to show their devotion to me, or any number of things that show their commitment and devotion.
Q: You’ve said that the longer a person is in chastity the more their entire outlook changes. What was the most extreme change you’ve seen a chastity slave undergo?
A: Over the course of time, as the individual adjusts to chastity, the challenge level and intensity of humiliation must increase. One of my chastity boys who never even thought of having feminization fantasies eventually completed an assignment that required him to travel all around the city dressed as a woman. He was exhilarated by the experience.
Q: What happens when, after only a short amount of time, a new chastity recruit begs to be let out?
A: I usually try to talk with them through it and encourage them to continue. Sometimes though, they (or I) reach the realization that chastity is not for them, and I go ahead and have them take it off. It really does depend on the individual, which is why communication is so important before and throughout the entire process.
Q: What about married guys interested in chastity and those in serious relationships- can they enter your chastity program?
A: The perfect boy is a single boy, however we would love to have significant others involved. It makes for an interesting and fun program. In this case I want an e-mail from her expressing enthusiasm. She must be as kinky as you are and willing to play key games.
Q: Anything else you’d like to share?
A: If you are interested in a chastity program, remember one thing: I do not suffer fools gladly. I don’t want to add you to the Chastity Hall of Flake. You may want to try a short program to see if the shoe fits.
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