Fiona
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So you think you can handle a cock lock? There are many different reasons men might crave the cradle of the cage: humiliation, submission, orgasm longevity, regimenting & training, anal orgasm cultivation, the need for letting go complete control etc. What brings you to the binds of the cage?
Physical vs. Mental Bonds
An actual chastity device is obviously very handy to prevent accidental nocturnal emissions and help the temptation of touching without permission but that's only the half of it. The mind's manipulation in the bonds bound by erotic entanglement and longing for your mistress is where all the real crux of chastity comes into play so much so that a device is almost secondary in nature.
Now if you and your mistress decide a cock lock is in fact the key to your submission then it's important to find the most befitting model but this doesn't mean you must have one in order to be chaste for a mistress. In fact, having that dick constantly rubbing and reminding you how much those aching erections seek the solace of release can be even an even greater delectation. You see, complete sensory deprivation can have the effect of making your libido go dormant during your duration which makes it way less fun to torment you in that case.
So determining if you require a device or not is the first step. In either case it's then a of matter of masturbation duration. Making you play but delay is necessary to keep that hunger sated but not let that need go abated.
-Are you open to anal orgasm experimentation? -How long can you endure? -Looking to break a personal best, want something long term or a short and sweet mini version?
Just be warned, if you say it's up to me I take that at face value and there is no telling what may happen.
Beginners Guide to Chastity
by Ms. Constance of www.malechastityphonesex.com
Ask yourself… “Is Chastity for me?”
This is the first step before even considering being locked in chastity… is it even for you? Ask yourself why chastity turns you on, why you have the need to be totally controlled and be honest with yourself. If you do not like the feeling of being totally helpless and unable to touch your cock chastity is not the thing for you. If however the very thought of losing all control like that turns you on than you should defiantly explore it.
Find the Right Chastity Mistress
There are many types of chastity Mistresses, those who lock up your cock and have you deal with it on your own for the most part. Others may be very hands on and want daily communication from their chastity pets, and other ladies may like a combination of the two. Some Mistresses may demand daily or weekly calls for check in and some may accept photo proof.
The most important thing for you is to reach out to the Mistress you would like to lock up your cock and find out what style of chastity Mistress she is and thank you can decide is she the one for you and your needs while cock locked.
Guide to Chasity: Finding the Right Device
After you have decided yes chastity is for you and you have found the perfect chastity Mistress now it is time to decide on which device is best suited for you. As a guide to chastity, let’s take a look at some of those.
There are many types of devices out there please take your time in choosing the device best suited for not only your penis but your life style. You certainly do not want to pay the expense of a metal device if you have to walk through a metal detector on a daily or weekly basis.
The size of your penis and the size of the device is also important so when looking for a chastity device check out the dimensions and measure yourself when flaccid. Wearing a device that does not fit properly will make for a miserable and often painful chastity experience
There is a site that will custom make a steel chastity device that will fit you like a glove and I highly recommend them…but this is for those of you who are very serious about chastity and want to be locked for extended periods of time.
Guide to Chastity: Choosing the Length of Lock Up
When starting out being locked into a chastity device it is important you have clear goals and realistic goals, you would not want to go from never being locked in chastity to being locked for 6 months. I suggest you start with small goals such as a few days at first, let your body get used to the feeling of the device and let your cock get used to the chastity device keeping you from getting an erection. Once you have met your first goal than move on to a higher one perhaps a week maybe two.
The biggest thing I want to stress in this guide to chastity is to always make your goals realistic and as with all new kink experiences pay attention to your body and your mental state and address any concerns you might have with your chastity Mistress.
Did you enjoy this guide to chastity? Are you ready to give it a try? Contact one of our Chastity Mistresses, today!