When a man blurts out that he wants me to completely own his cock, I get a little tingle...he sounds ripe for chastity! Orgasm denial and cum schedules are no longer satisfactory displays of submission for him, and he is prepared to go all the way to complete surrender of his cock.
My favorite way to conduct chastity is actually without using a cock cage. A device makes it too easy for you to keep your hands out of your underpants. Real devotion happens when you're in chastity without a cage, being actively abstinent. Will I work with you if you want to use a chastity device? Absolutely...in fact, I get a real kick out of giving a prostate milking to caged subs. But if you choose to build the self-discipline required to remain obedient without the help of a cage, you'll be stronger for it.
I take excellent care of my chastity slaves, regardless of your reasons for wanting to be one. Are you trying to break a chronic masturbation addiction? Are you dipping your toe into extremely kinky waters while between relationships? Maybe you're trying to achieve a personal best in long-term denial, or you're a newbie who wants to see how long he can make it without an orgasm. Once that cock is mine, it'll delight in every tiny touch, every ruined orgasm, every bit of cock drool I allow. Whatever your reasons for needing the bonds of chastity, I'll have a hell of a good time designing your chastity program!
by Ms. Constance of www.malechastityphonesex.com
Ask yourself… “Is Chastity for me?”
This is the first step before even considering being locked in chastity… is it even for you? Ask yourself why chastity turns you on, why you have the need to be totally controlled and be honest with yourself. If you do not like the feeling of being totally helpless and unable to touch your cock chastity is not the thing for you. If however the very thought of losing all control like that turns you on than you should defiantly explore it.
There are many types of chastity Mistresses, those who lock up your cock and have you deal with it on your own for the most part. Others may be very hands on and want daily communication from their chastity pets, and other ladies may like a combination of the two. Some Mistresses may demand daily or weekly calls for check in and some may accept photo proof.
The most important thing for you is to reach out to the Mistress you would like to lock up your cock and find out what style of chastity Mistress she is and thank you can decide is she the one for you and your needs while cock locked.
After you have decided yes chastity is for you and you have found the perfect chastity Mistress now it is time to decide on which device is best suited for you. As a guide to chastity, let’s take a look at some of those.
There are many types of devices out there please take your time in choosing the device best suited for not only your penis but your life style. You certainly do not want to pay the expense of a metal device if you have to walk through a metal detector on a daily or weekly basis.
The size of your penis and the size of the device is also important so when looking for a chastity device check out the dimensions and measure yourself when flaccid. Wearing a device that does not fit properly will make for a miserable and often painful chastity experience
There is a site that will custom make a steel chastity device that will fit you like a glove and I highly recommend them…but this is for those of you who are very serious about chastity and want to be locked for extended periods of time.
When starting out being locked into a chastity device it is important you have clear goals and realistic goals, you would not want to go from never being locked in chastity to being locked for 6 months. I suggest you start with small goals such as a few days at first, let your body get used to the feeling of the device and let your cock get used to the chastity device keeping you from getting an erection. Once you have met your first goal than move on to a higher one perhaps a week maybe two.
The biggest thing I want to stress in this guide to chastity is to always make your goals realistic and as with all new kink experiences pay attention to your body and your mental state and address any concerns you might have with your chastity Mistress.
Did you enjoy this guide to chastity? Are you ready to give it a try? Contact one of our Chastity Mistresses, today!