Are you ready to do this with me? You already know it's what you need. You've been fantasizing about it for so long and it just feels right, doesn't it? You ache to surrender control of your pleasure to a strong, sexy Mistress like me.
Maybe you find yourself in a place when you can't control your masturbation. All of your attempts at self control have failed you. No matter how hard you try or how many promises you make to yourself, soon enough, you find yourself tempted to wrap your hand around your cock again. And every time you are just too weak to resist the allure of instant gratification. I can help you with that if you commit to submitting to me.
Or maybe you have your own unique reasons for wanting to hand over authority of your pleasure to a sexy mistress. You like the kinky aspect of chastity, you're curious and want to give it a try. You just love the thought of constantly having aching balls and dripping pre-cum. You want to focus less on your own pleasure so you can focus more on someone else's. What a beautiful gift for your partner!
Either way, once you're my pet, there are some things you can expect from me. First, we will have regular contact based on a schedule we will come up with together when we first meet. Second, I require frequent edging and tease and denial with me either by phone or over Skype. I will own your cock and I will own your orgasms while I am controlling and training you.
And most of all, no matter how much you beg and plead, you will never ever have an orgasm without my permission. If you make a mistake and find that you are going over the edge against my wishes, you are required to ruin it. I will have you at the edge of orgasm again and again, only to deny you every time. You will no longer decide when to cum - only I will choose when and where. Success in obedience and meeting goals will earn you rewards and of course, failure to obey will earn you consequences.
I can't wait for us to start our chastity adventure together soon!
by Ms. Constance of www.malechastityphonesex.com
Ask yourself… “Is Chastity for me?”
This is the first step before even considering being locked in chastity… is it even for you? Ask yourself why chastity turns you on, why you have the need to be totally controlled and be honest with yourself. If you do not like the feeling of being totally helpless and unable to touch your cock chastity is not the thing for you. If however the very thought of losing all control like that turns you on than you should defiantly explore it.
There are many types of chastity Mistresses, those who lock up your cock and have you deal with it on your own for the most part. Others may be very hands on and want daily communication from their chastity pets, and other ladies may like a combination of the two. Some Mistresses may demand daily or weekly calls for check in and some may accept photo proof.
The most important thing for you is to reach out to the Mistress you would like to lock up your cock and find out what style of chastity Mistress she is and thank you can decide is she the one for you and your needs while cock locked.
After you have decided yes chastity is for you and you have found the perfect chastity Mistress now it is time to decide on which device is best suited for you. As a guide to chastity, let’s take a look at some of those.
There are many types of devices out there please take your time in choosing the device best suited for not only your penis but your life style. You certainly do not want to pay the expense of a metal device if you have to walk through a metal detector on a daily or weekly basis.
The size of your penis and the size of the device is also important so when looking for a chastity device check out the dimensions and measure yourself when flaccid. Wearing a device that does not fit properly will make for a miserable and often painful chastity experience
There is a site that will custom make a steel chastity device that will fit you like a glove and I highly recommend them…but this is for those of you who are very serious about chastity and want to be locked for extended periods of time.
When starting out being locked into a chastity device it is important you have clear goals and realistic goals, you would not want to go from never being locked in chastity to being locked for 6 months. I suggest you start with small goals such as a few days at first, let your body get used to the feeling of the device and let your cock get used to the chastity device keeping you from getting an erection. Once you have met your first goal than move on to a higher one perhaps a week maybe two.
The biggest thing I want to stress in this guide to chastity is to always make your goals realistic and as with all new kink experiences pay attention to your body and your mental state and address any concerns you might have with your chastity Mistress.
Did you enjoy this guide to chastity? Are you ready to give it a try? Contact one of our Chastity Mistresses, today!